I hope you don’t go around calling women without gender dysphoria “birthing people”. I hope you respect “ejaculating people” too, and refer to them all as such.
It’s not about transmen, it’s about transwomen who want to decouple being a woman from the definition “adult female human being”. Women talking about a distinctly female experience upsets them so women should be silenced or heavily edit their speech to prop up their fantasy. Believing a man is a woman is a fantasy, even if feelings of gender dysphoria are real. A person with Cotard’s delusion really feels they are a corpse…but they aren’t.